Learn these 3 rules before you engage in any conversation.
In a world that's filled with information our way of conversation is drastically changing.
Noticed how quickly we forget about real life interactions due to our digital escapism?
So how do you make sure to stand out in every conversation? let's explain the secret of storytelling.
Storytelling isn't just something for campfires or bedtime stories... storytelling is a powerful tool that can elevate your position in any type of conversation.
Think about it:
how many names do you remember from the last event you attended?
Probably not many...
But do you still remember the person who shared a compelling story that night?
You probably do.
The truth is that we as humans are wired for narrative.
We process information through stories that shape our understanding of the world.
By sharing your own stories, you're not just communicating:
you're creating connections.
How to - storytelling
The 3 rules of storytelling
1. Trigger curiosity
2. Deliver emotion
3. Respond open-ended
1. Example how you can trigger curiosity.
Most common scenario
Someone: Who are you?
You: I'm Tim, 28 years old and work as content creator.
Someone: Oh okay... (conversation ends)
Try this instead
Someone: Who are you?
You: I'm Tim and currently I'm working on something I believe to be the future.
Someone: Oh, what's that?
2. Example how you can continue the conversation and deliver emotion.
Most common scenario
Someone: Who are you?
You: I'm Tim and currently I'm working on something I believe to be the future.
Someone: Oh, what's that?
You: It's about content creation.
Someone: Oh yeah... those kind of videos I see them a lot... (conversation ends)
Try this instead
Someone: Who are you?
You: I'm Tim and currently I'm working on something I believe to be the future.
Someone: Oh, what's that?
You: It involves a solution for people who are a little lost, I truly believe I can change their lives.
Someone: That sounds great, how do you do it?
3. Example of how you can now keep that conversation going open-ended.
Most common scenario
Someone: Who are you?
You: I'm Tim and currently I'm working on something I believe to be the future.
Someone: Oh, what's that?
You: It involves a solution for people who are a little lost, I truly believe I can change their lives.
Someone: That sounds great, how do you do it?
You: I create videos with editing software and upload it.
Someone: Oh ok... (conversation ends)
Try this instead
Someone: Who are you?
You: I'm Tim and currently I'm working on something I believe to be the future.
Someone: Oh, what's that?
You: It involves a solution for people who are lonely and lost, I truly believe I can make their lives.
Someone: That sounds really great, how do you do it?
You: Have you ever heard about content creation for social media?
Someone: Yeah I heard about it, but don't understand.
You: That's funny you say that, part of my job is to help people understand, so maybe I can explain something?
Someone: Yes! sure, I always wondered how .....
Remember
Always keep the 3 rules of storytelling in mind when engaging in conversations.
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Trigger curiosity
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Deliver emotion
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Respond open-ended
Make sure to always keep this in mind.
The key to effectivity is authenticity.
Don't try to be someone you're not.
Share your own experiences, your own challenges, and your own passions.
Be genuine, be vulnerable, and be human.
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